The simple things in life

To be able to enjoy your life and be simply happy doesn’t sound so simple at all. Many people say they will be happy when this happens or when that special person comes into their life or when they get a promotion. The problem with this attitude is that you will probably never be simply happy in your life. There is always something else waiting for us when we accomplish a goal.

Many of us don’t see how lucky we are to be alive, to be healthy, to have a job, to have food on the table and a roof above our heads. These things are taken so much for granted, just because these things are the ‘basics’ of life. When as a matter of fact, THAT is luxury.

It is a luxury to be alive in a free country, where you can speak your mind and do what you want. It is a BIG LUXURY to be healthy, walking and running and talking and moving and playing and working and traveling and reading without feeling any pain or being limited. It is a luxury to have food in your stomach and going to sleep in a warm bed. It is a luxury to have clothes to choose from in the morning, clean water to drink, and be able to go to the movies once in a while.

If you can not see how lucky you are now, you will never be happy. The attitude that you show when you have the “simple” things in life with bring you the “bigger” things you desire. Going on a holiday far away, lying on the beach, sipping on your cocktail will mean nothing and it won’t even add anything to your happiness if you are not well.

Luxury is when you recognize how lucky you are and how blessed you are in your daily life. Anything else that comes after that is just a temporary happy thing. It won’t keep you satisfied for the rest of your life.

How many times do you feel sad when coming back from a very nice holiday, or when a great party just finished, or when you phone broke and you have to get a new one. Temporary happiness is fine and you need some of that in your life, but don’t let it take your focus away from the true happiness that you already have.

In the end the simple things in life are what count the most.

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Useless advice

We are all walking around giving people advice that need it and tell everyone what to do and how to solve their problems.

What you preach, you have to practise yourself. What is the use of giving advice when you don’t even follow your own? Many say you have to be patience in life and what not, yet when they are waiting in line at the supermarket they count the seconds.

People tell others to be nice and accepting of everyone and not to discriminate, yet when someone is different then them, they will be first one to point out the differences.

Everyone posts on their social media to follow dreams, to go after what they want, to be positive, that happiness comes from within, yet all they do is complaining about their daily jobs and how bad they hate it. How they are unhappy and they are not living the life they wish to live.

If you are a walking spiritual – religious – positive – happy guru, why don’t you take your own advice? Why is it that we have solutions for everyone but ourselves?

We are too scared to look within, and our minds want to occupy the empty space that we have to solve our own problems with someone’s problems. We love to solve other people’s problems, we want to hear more complaining, more rumors, more problems because at least we are turning the focus on someone else.

You can always help others, but don’t forget your own life. We can not forget ourselves, our beautiful souls need healing too. We need someone that can listen to us too. Not hearing our complains, but hearing our pain and help us heal it.

When the time has passed, it will be too late to start thinking about what we could have done, should have done, should have healed, could have tried.

Why is it that on our deathbeds we start thinking about our life, why don’t we think about it now that we are alive!

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Bad Karma Works For No One

We all have experienced a situation where another human being had hurt us or put us in a bad or negative situation.

The funny thing that people say is “One day they will feel the way I feel now” or “It will come back to them and they will regret doing this to me” or “I hope that this person will get what he/she has put me through”.

Something that I have found out through my experience is that BAD KARMA WORKS FOR NO ONE. It is self employed, it is not going to work for you so that you get to see the other person suffering the way you have or wishing it will be worse for them. It is not nice to be put in a situation where you get hurt or where you experience sadness or anger. But it is even worse to wish for someone else, BAD KARMA.

Karma is energy, it matches the energy that you put out and brings it back to you. “What goes around comes around”. The person that might have hurt you will get what they deserve whether it is worse or as painful based on what they have put out. Maybe they regret the way they made you feel, maybe it is unconsciously done, maybe they did not know that they have hurt you. Whatever the case, their (bad) Karma will come to them, and FORTUNATELY, it will NOT be according to your wishes (don’t feel bad, it’s all good).

You are angry and upset, you have been hurt and maybe heartbroken, but you have to just wish them all the best move on. Focus on your own Karma, Wishing or hoping something bad is going to happen to someone else is the exact energy that you are putting out and therefore, don’t be surprised when you meet another person that is giving you a hard time. So don’t try and do the job for Karma, you will not be able to do it, you don’t even know how to do it or what to do. If anything, you will cause yourself more harm than just letting it go.

You want revenge? Forgiveness is key!!! Just forgive whatever happened and move on. After being in a difficult relationship, having difficulties at work with someone, your friend neglecting your or any situation that includes people and them making you feel bad, just focus on what you love. Watch my video on my YouTube channel for more, click here to be directed. It will help you to move forward.

Again… Forgiveness is key! Have peace with whatever happened, drop it, and leave it behind.

All is well. Life is good. God is great ❤